What are you working on?

December 19, 2010 Leave a Comment

Today I’m passing on some wise advice from Seth Godin:

What are you working on?

If someone asks you that, are you excited to tell them the answer?

I hope so. If not, you’re wasting away.

No matter what your job is, no matter where you work, there’s a way to create a project (on your own, on weekends if necessary), where the excitement is palpable, where something that might make a difference is right around the corner.

Hurry, go do that.

Are you rusting away at work doing a job you hate? Do you work from home, but always seem to be working on the stuff you don’t like? Well this post is for you.

Make time for the things that get you excited. That’s the good bit. :)

Sure, do the less-exciting work too (keep your job!) but make sure there’s always something to look forward to which gets your brain ticking. If there’s nothing in your life which you’d happily jump out of bed for, then there’s something missing. Go find it!

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8 to be great!

August 27, 2010 Leave a Comment

Richard St. John gave a TED speech which summarised how to be successful perfectly in under four minutes. Watch this!

He’s also made nifty wallpaper for all sorts of devices of his “8 to be great” cycle.

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Using LinkedIn Effectively – Write An Online Resume

August 3, 2010 1 Comment

I’ve spoken to a few people recently who are worried about using services like LinkedIn because they are embarrassed about their work history. They don’t want to admit to prospective employers that they took a job way below their qualifications just because the rent needed paying. They also don’t want to admit that they kept those jobs because it was some sort of security, even though it was doing nothing for their career path. Other similar people might be looking to make a career change, but don’t want to admit that they’re new to their chosen field.

But seriously, don’t worry about it. Most people have jobs like that in their history – and sometimes that actually reflects well in the employer’s eyes.

Resume writing online can be tricky, because you need to impress the right people at the right time while maintaining honesty. LinkedIn is a great way to showcase both what you have done and what you can do. You just have to look at it the right way and to carefully design your profile to show the right parts of a professional resume at the right time.

I researched many online resumes to try to ascertain what made some look so impressive and others so drab. I found that the most impressive resumes were the ones with the least clutter. They basically had a good summary and showed future directions.

Remember that the better you are at something, the less you need to mention other skills. For instance, people who had done really well with a particular entrepreneurial activity rarely bothered to mention the jobs they had before it. I mean, why would they?

Make sure your headline epitomises what you want to do. If you’ve never done it before, don’t be afraid to be a little candid: Say “Freelance writer and Aspiring Novelist” if that’s what you want to do.

The “Summary” section is a place for you to mention everything you really want people to know about your resume and plans for the future. Think of your dream job: What would you like the head of that company to know about you? Maybe consider an actual job specification similar to one you would like: What would you write in a cover letter? This is your summary! Tell people what you want to do, what you’re really good at and give a few key examples of things you’ve done which will help you get the job. Craft it well, because this is the primary thing you want people to read. Also, if you can subtly explain away any of the anomalies with a quick interesting statement about what you have been doing, then do that!

Fill out the rest of your profile with all the same jobs you would mention in a resume you would submit for your dream job. Also add any jobs that are impressive, but not necessarily relevant, and jobs which you worked at for a long time (to show you weren’t unemployed).

List your blog and Twitter profile if they are well-written and relevant to your future work plans. Add the applications for blogs and Twitter. Look at other available applications, like Slideshare, and see if you can showcase any other skills well by using these tools.

Remove the clutter in your public profile – Keep your best information in your summary.

Here’s the gold nugget in this online resume advice. With LinkedIn, there’s an option to show a public resume. In “Edit My Profile”, look on the right for “Edit Public Profile Settings”. For your public profile, you have the option to turn on/off many sub-sections of your full profile. Use it to de-clutter your public profile so that only the very best information is shown to someone taking a first glance at your resume.

Take off your past positions, education, awards, interests, details for current positions and anything else that makes it too cluttered. Ensure that anything important you would like people to know from those sections is clearly stated in your summary. Keep your picture, headline, summary, current positions (if you’re working). Keep your groups if you can be bothered to ensure that only the most relevant groups feature on your profile (you set this up on a per-group basis).

Now, check out your public profile. Tweak until you think it’s the perfect page to show the recruiter for your dream job.

Also, think ahead when using LinkedIn. Don’t just connect to colleagues – connect with family, friends and acquaintances too. These connections help when you want to approach someone for a job (or to help other people get a job). And pay it forward! Write references for people you have worked with. Write character references for people you studied with. Some of these people may decide to write a reference for you too. Then you’ll be ready to apply for your dream job – or if you’re really lucky they might find you!

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How to let go of things that do you no good

July 27, 2010 2 Comments

ClutterOkay, hands up who has a pile of magazines they will never read? And who has a stack of clothes they never wear? Who has friends or family who make them feel awful? And who dreads going to their job? I bet most people would have felt the need to raise your hand to at least one of those points (although, you probably didn’t actually do it because the people around you at work would think you were nuts).

Target: Clutter

We all hold on to a lot of things in our lives that we just don’t need. Things that are memorable or could be useful one day but they often just aren’t. After moving house three times (and being stuffed in the only place it could fit) that old thingummy that was going to be so useful one day is nearly always broken when you need it. The pointlessness of owning it all this time is often lost on us beneath all our excuses for owning it in the first place and our general grumpiness that it was broken when we needed it. Wouldn’t it have been better to buy it just before you need it? Too right!

So, how do we stop ourselves hanging onto stuff we don’t need? Well, working out why we feel we need it is a start. For some it’s a fear of forgetting something important. For others it’s a fear of not having what you need when you need it. A wise person once told me (and I’m so glad he meant this in jest) “Well, the only things I remember throwing away are the things I needed later”. Well, duh! The truth being that there are many more things you never thought of again.

So, why worry? Consider the tale of an old jumper of mine (Oh, go on. It won’t hurt). I always felt the need to keep this particular jumper regardless of the fact that it was too big for me (and never looked any good) just in case I got cold enough to need it. I never wore it. Ever. It was completely illogical to continue to hold on to that jumper. I have other jumpers. I didn’t need it. It still took a lot of work to give it to charity (honest!).

How to declutter? Home decluttering is easier than you might think. Pick up every item in your house and question it’s value. Is it useful? Do you use it? Do you love it? Do you need it? Do you want it? Is it broken? Will you fix it? Is it pretty/ornate? Is it valuable? Does it bring back memories? Was it given to you? If you can’t work out why you still have it then get rid of it. If it’s an ornament you don’t like then give it to charity. If it’s pretty then put it on display, dammit! Use it for what it is. Make it worth owning. If it’s only use is for memories then store it safely and in a way that you can access when you want to remember. If it needs fixing then make an effort to fix it. If you’re not going to fix it then give it to someone who will. There’s no point having a gigantic mending “to do” list that only serves to clutter your house and make you feel guilty. Take a photo and let it go: you can still dream grand thoughts without hanging on to physical manifestations of the dream.

Here’s a hint: If you are considering getting rid of something but you’re not quite sure try packing it away for a while. If you don’t need it within a few months then get rid of it. And do the world a favour and sell the item or give it to charity. Don’t just chuck it.

In the end it comes down to separating the needs from the wants (and separating the don’t needs and don’t wants from the needs and wants). Most of our accumulated clutter comes from buying things we don’t really need or want. Maybe it’s time to think more carefully about what we buy. It would save all the pain and suffering later when we are forced to contemplate chucking it away.

Well, there’s that one down. But what about other things we keep around that do us no good at all. Jobs, partners and friends? We really need to question the value of the things we spend a lot of time on and the people we spend a lot of time with. Why? Because life is short and we need to have the best time we can before we die. Slightly morbid, I know. But it’s true, okay?

Target: People

Let’s tackle the harder topic first: People. It might sound nasty to want to spend less time with the people that do you no good. But take a little time to consider this thought carefully. For starters, you’re probably not doing them any good either. If you’re constantly arguing or bickering then you’re causing each other undue stress for no good reason. Spend less time with this person and reserve seeing each other for occasions where you will enjoy each other’s company for a short while only. It’s no secret that parents and teenagers get along far better after the child moves out. And I’ve just given you the reason why. Now, don’t worry too much about this. You don’t have to completely cut contact with the people in your life that are wrong for you. You don’t have to do anything at all. Just spend more of your time with the people who are right for you. You’ll still see the others when it’s important to do so.

So, let’s try similar tactics to finding value in people as we did with clutter. Do you love them? Are they funny? Do they like you? Are they interesting? Are they inspiring? Does time fly when you’re with them? Do you look forward to being with them? Do they make you feel special? Do they help you? Do you feel inspired to help them? Does it make you feel good to help them? Are they an old friend? Are they family? Are you responsible for them? Are they close to someone you want to stay close to? Do you enjoy your time with them? If you can’t see a good reason to spend time with them after asking yourself these questions then you are probably spending your time with the wrong people (in fact, you might well choose to continue to do so. But at least do it knowingly).

Who does make you feel good? Who do you enjoy the company of? Get on the phone and invite them to something, silly. Surround yourself with people who inspire you to be a better person. People who keep you on your toes mentally. People who you can talk to for days at a time. People who have achieved great things (things that you admire as great things). A friend may achieve great things by volunteer work or by remembering everyone’s names. As long as you remain impressed by the achievement you will probably find great value in the friend.

On this point, I have one friend who can speak Chinese as a second language fluently whereas my partner has read just about every science fiction book ever written (okay, slight exaggeration). These two both admire the other for their achievements and yet fail to recognise the value of their own. It is probably worth recognising what draws people to you. For your own sanity, that is.

Target: Work

And now onto the big nasty: Work. When do you draw the line? How do you tell if work is doing you more harm than good? What would you do if you weren’t there? There’s lots of things you need to ask yourself before you can make this judgement. It’s worth seriously weighing up the pros and cons before deciding. And speak to your boss because it may only take a change of pace to make you immensely happier at work.

Do you love your job? Is it rewarding? Do you make a difference to the world? Do you get make a difference for a few people? Are you satisfied? Is the job keeping you interested? Do you look forward to work? Do you dream of a different career? Do you like the hours? Do you like the minutes? Is the way you spend most days appealing? Is the content of your workday appealing (ie there’s a very big difference between working in a call centre for a manure company and a call centre for an insurance company)? Do you have status in the company? Is there potential for promotion or restructure? Does your employer train people for higher roles? Are the wages high enough for the work you do? Are the wages high enough for your budget and lifestyle? Do you get to work autonomously? Are you micro managed? Are you a leader? Are your opinions heard? How does the office location suit you? What are the office aesthetics like? Do you have a view? Is your desk comfortable? What is the office politics like? Do you like your boss and peers? Is there a social culture? Are you a part of it? Do you value the company itself? Do you believe in the product? The list can go on and on..

I have a list of questions for the flip side, too: If you were to leave this job what would you do? Would you have enough money to survive? Can you go back to study something more fulfilling? Would you be more happy with a part time bar job than your full time office job? Are you thinking of starting a business? Are you the right sort of person to run a business? Are you ready? Face it, leaving your job without a plan of what else you’re going to do could be a pretty stupid move. Even if you have savings you might use them up before you work it out your life’s purpose. Plan first. And don’t forget to talk to your boss (before doing anything) about negotiating fewer hours or further responsibility. They might be able to help you.

So, sort out your stuff, your friends and your job by really questioning their value. Be honest with yourself! Then you can de-clutter your home, stop yourself spending on things you don’t need, have awesome friends that make you feel great and get a job you love!

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How to find out what to do with your life

February 3, 2010 Leave a Comment

So what to do? What do you actually want to do with your life?

“If you’re unsure about what you’re going to do with your life, try to remember some of the most interesting people didn’t know what they were going to do at age twenty-two or even at forty. And nearly all of them are unemployed drug addicts forced to live on cat food. ” — John Safran, Not the sunscreen song

Sorry, I wanted to inject something funny (yet dire) to get you thinking.

How do you work out what to do with your life? What a huge question! And so many answers. How can you even possibly begin to pin down an answer? My theory is that you don’t. Well, don’t try to choose just one thing. It’s too hard. Narrow it down to a small handful and then follow the path that looks best from there. Or if you do choose one path don’t forget that you can back out and choose another one if it doesn’t work out. I think that’s the problem with decisions. People think that once they’re made you have to live with them forever. I mean, sure, give it a go. A real go. Put some effort into making it work for you. But if it doesn’t work then choose something else!

“Our main business is not to see what lies dimly at a distance, but to do what lies clearly at hand” — Thomas Carlyle

And what exactly are we talking about here? What to do with your life. That’s pretty broad. By this, most people mean career paths. Some will mean getting married and having kids. Others will mean charity work or religious calling or whatnot. Or they might mean moving overseas or to the country. It might be as simple as choosing to slow down or stay working hard. Lots to decide on. But let’s think about career type only. Most people (unless they’re very lucky) have to find a way to earn a crust somehow. So, since you’re probably destined to have to earn money in some way you need to work out what the best way for you is. I know, I know. That’s your problem. We’ll try to fix that.

Well, let’s start with a question some will find easy. This is like a shortcut to finding out. Picture a situation where you have enough money to live off and never needed to get a job. What would you do with your time? Would you go sailing? Would you go hiking? Would you volunteer at a charity or a library? Would you travel? Would you babysit? Would you go into local council or politics? Would you tinker with computers? Really think. Hard.

Okay, so now you’ve got an idea of how to spend huge amounts of leisure time. How can you work that back into your career? For some this will be SO obvious. For others you may still have too many things to choose from. It should still help you to draw a picture. If you like babysitting in your spare time then get yourself working in childcare right now! Get paid to do what you would do with your time anyway. That’s the plan! If you like to travel then maybe becoming a travel agent is on the cards. Or if you are currently an accountant then you might consider staying an accountant and shifting your place of work to a travel agent.

Now, I’d like you to think about your dream life. Visualise it. When you wake up what do you see? Who do you live with? What do you do that day? Try to incorporate as many of the little things into your life as soon as possible. They’ll make you happier. Now, the reason I mentioned this is to remind yourself about potential contradictions. If you love hiking, but want to wake up every day in a city apartment then you might not really want to work as a tour guide in the sticks. Whereas if you love hiking and you visualised a place with a good view of nature out your bedroom window then a tour guide just might be the trick. Your call. You need to think things through to make it work. As I implied with the example of the accountant, you may find your ideal field this way but not your ideal job role. Or you may find your ideal job role and not the field. Depends how your imagination works, really. So, we need to help you find a job role that fits. Chosing your favourite skills can be tricky. There are lots of tests out there that help you to narrow down your favourite skills sets. Doing these may help you or it may not. It’s up to you how you decide. Suit yourself. But you need to know what your favourite skills are. You don’t want to end up a construction worker when you prefer to help people. Make sure you know.

Do lots more investigation into yourself before deciding. A great resource is the book “What colour is my Parachute” and the related website, The Job Hunter’s Bible, written by the author, Dick Bolles. Here is a very easy way of working yourself out. Divide a page into three columns. Write down all your favourite interests (including your dream pastime) on the left. Write down all your favourite skills in the middle. Make up a list of jobs on the right that mix your favourite interests and skills. Write down any weird and wonderful combination you can think of. Even if it’s silly. It might lead you to think of something more realistic when you look at it later. There’s also plenty of career planning tools online.

Right. Now you have some brilliant career paths opening up. How to narrow them down? Well, you have to research them a bit. Once you come up with a great idea you have to investigate it. Get career planning advice if you can. Spend as much time as you can working out how to earn money in one of these dream jobs. You might surprise yourself. Don’t just presume everyone in the world is killing themselves to get that job. Find out. No slacking off here, alright? Remember, most of the best jobs (in fact, most jobs) are not advertised. Work out how to make that dream job yours. But that’s another story…

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Get Organised!

March 10, 2008 2 Comments

Get Organised – Start using a decent task manager and use it religiously.

I could rant and rave about how good remember the milk is. But I won’t. I have compared it to many task managers and project management systems and found it far superior to all of them. Just go check it out, okay?

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Take charge of your life NOW!

March 10, 2008 Leave a Comment

Are you drifting along doing jobs you merely like? Are you settling for a relationship that isn’t what you dreamed of? Why are you doing that? You need to be in charge of your own life because if you leave the direction of your life to other people it will never be what you really want.

Work it out!

You might think you don’t know what direction you really ought to be taking. But you probably have an inkling. What are you dreaming about while you wait for the photocopier to finish printing? What are you doing when the afternoon just flies by? When someone asks what you do for a living what do you wish you could tell them? Set clear goals for yourself!

Make a path

When you realise that you know what you want you must act on it! Do some research. Maybe you need to study and re-train. Maybe you have the technical skills and now need to learn about running your own business. Don’t just leave it all pie in the sky – Work out how you are going to get there!

Do it!

That’s a pretty big step just there. But the real step is the next bit. Doing what you love. Having what you want. For real. Taking charge of your life just about the single most exciting thing you can do for yourself this lifetime.

Put away all your insecurities. Set aside your self doubt. Get rid of all your excuses: You are not too young/old to start (Look, An 84 year old man is learning to read at primary school), you are not too overweight to be slim again, you have willpower. If you find it too hard to believe in yourself then surround yourself in people that believe in you and let the fan club do the talking. (Just make sure you return the favour, okay?)

You would never have got as far as you have today if you had believed you were incapable of changing yourself. Learning to walk, read, ride a bike are all huge undertakings. When you first sat on that bike and saw the ground a long, long way away you were probably scared to death. Scared that you weren’t going to be able to ride and scared that not being able to ride was going to hurt a lot. And for a long time you couldn’t ride. And it hurt. And it damaged your confidence every time you fell off. But you believed it was possible. You believed you could do it. And eventually you did.

What happened to your childlike self-belief? When you knew nothing about anything and you had everything in the world to learn why did you believe you could? Why can’t you do that for yourself now?

So, what’s stopping you from having it all? Why have you not taken that step? Do you have a plan? Is the path achievable? Are you able to visualise yourself achieving your goals? As a happy, successful person? Yes, it can be you!

Take the first step.

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Learn to manage your finances

March 10, 2008 Leave a Comment

Take a read of “Rich Dad, Poor Dad – Robert T Kiyosaki (with Sharon L Lechter)”. I thought this book was great! Along with being a very pleasant read it had many valuable financial lessons to teach us. I’ll quickly go through some of the very important points.

We really don’t get taught anything about financial management in school. I’m shocked at how many of my friends know nothing about how their credit card works, let alone how to use simple accounting to correctly assess their financial position. We need to have financial literacy to survive.

The book explores the types of financial management lessons the rich teach their children. These are the lessons that the poor and middle class miss out on. They are simple and basically revolve around learning as much as possible so that you can make educated decisions about money. Most importantly, this book gives you some basic ideas of things you will need to learn more about.. so you’re not just learning useless facts and you are in fact learning the right things to become financially literate.

A most important thing to learn from this book is that you don’t get rich working for money. Wages will only keep you just above broke. Seriously, how many times do we have to be told this before we believe it enough to change our lives? Get out of the rat race!

“Most people never see the trap they are in.” — Robert T Kiyosaki

Most people work because they are afraid of not having money or they desire things that they think will make them happy. Then they are stuck working for fear of losing that income. They want security. The aim is to not let money run your life. Curb your desires and don’t be afraid of having nothing. Beware of the hole in your pocket. Don’t let your emotions rule your decision making. Think with your head!

“With each dollar bill that enters your hand, you and only you have the power to determine your destiny. Spend it foolishly, you choose to be poor. Spend it on liabilities, you choose to be middle class. Invest it in your mind and learn how to acquire assets and you will be choosing wealth as your goal and future. The choice is yours and only yours. Every day with every dollar, you choose to be rich, poor or middle class.” — Robert T Kiyosaki

Learn to correctly identify assets and then buy assets. For most people, a home is a liability not an asset. Assets put money back into your pocket. Make every dollar you get work for you. Invest it. Then it will come back as more income. Easy!

“Build and keep your asset column strong. Once a dollar goes into it, never let it come out. Think of it this way, once a dollar goes into your asset column, it becomes your employee. ” — Robert T Kiyosaki

Always make sure you pay yourself first – and that means assets, not splurging! If you invest your money wisely it will create the income you need to pay the bills later. Plus, it will scare you into making your brain think about how to create some more money in the meantime. Forbid the words “I can’t afford it” and replace them with “How can I afford it?”. You’ll turn your brain on and force it to come up with a solution.

Learn legal ways to avoid paying so much in taxes. Protect your investments through corporations. Corporations pay less in tax than the highest income brackets. Now, due to the tiering structure in Australia you’d have to be earning quite a bit before a flat 30% tax rate was less expensive than your tiered rate. But the point is to LEARN. Find out about taxes and legal ways to minimise them. Talk to an accountant about your current situation. Hire intelligent people to help you.

Don’t just do what everyone else does. Educate yourself and then take educated risks! You’ll get better at it every time you try it.

“Sometimes you win and sometimes you learn.” — Robert T Kiyosaki

Ensure you have enough money not tied up to be able to take advantage of good opportunities. Just like when you are playing Monopoly, you need to ensure you have sufficient cash to buy properties in auction or you could miss a bargain.

Young people should develop investment portfolios before deciding to own a house. The benefits of the extra years on the portfolio are phenomenal. What are the best types of assets? Things that make money by themselves: Businesses that don’t require your presence, managed funds, stocks, bonds, royalties and income-generating real estate.

“Money is only an idea. If you want more money simply change your thinking” — Robert T Kiyosaki

To start off with, most people need to earn a wage to get their initial funds for investing. This doesn’t have to lead to a career. Choose jobs according to what you will learn from them. Groom yourself as a CEO would groom an young, rising star. Learn a little bit about everything and try not to over-specialise. Specialisation is a risk in itself. What happens if that profession becomes redundant? Where will you be then?

Get over your fear, cynicism, laziness, bad habits and arrogance. Fear of losing, rejection, lack of money. We learn by making mistakes. Make some! If what you’re currently doing isn’t working you have to change it. Stop being a cynic and ask wealthy people you know how they did it. Find role models. Read books. Look for new ideas. Go to seminars. Learn! Beat laziness by asking yourself “What’s in it for me?”. Get off your butt and do something about your situation. Now!

“A person needs to sit down and ask, ‘What’s in it for me if I’m healthy, sexy and good looking?’ Or ‘What would my life be like if I never had to work again’ Or ‘What would I do if I had all the money I needed?’. Without a little greed, the desire to have something better, progress is not made.” — Robert T Kiyosaki

To receive you must give. Give generously. Teach others what you know as you will learn more also. Help others to have what you want as you will gain also. Give money to charity. Smile at people. Help others gain contacts and sales. What you give will come back.

  • Curb your desires and get rid of the hole in your pocket
  • Make every dollar work for you
  • Always think “How can I afford it?”
  • Change what you’re doing to something that works
  • Learn about finance, accounting and taxes
  • Learn about business communication, sales, advertising and PR
  • Learn about management: cash flow, systems, personal time management and people
  • Get over your fear of rejection and fear of failure
  • Work with people smarter than you are
  • Work to learn
  • Give generously
  • Learn about investment options
  • Learn about how to raise money to finance good opportunities
  • Keep your finances ready to take advantage of a great deal
  • Always keep your eye out for good investment opportunities
  • Make offers
  • TAKE ACTION!!

“Action always beats inaction.” — Robert T Kiyosaki

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So, how exactly do you stop procrastinating?

March 9, 2008 Leave a Comment

How do you get off your arse and just do something? It seems the more important the task the harder it is to start. This is because of fear. The people who relentlessly get stuck into massive projects do this because they know the fear can be controlled.

“He who deliberates fully before taking a step will spend his entire life on one leg” — Chinese proverb

So, what are you afraid of? Afraid that it won’t work. Afraid that you can’t get it done in time? Afraid that you don’t know enough? You’re not good enough? Or is it your attitude to the task?

Matt Inglot theorises in this article that school engraves a mentality that “work needs to be put off as long as possible so that play can occur”. He’s right.. and for that schooling has a lot to answer for. But once we acknowledge this we can get over it. You have to. What you are procrastinating about could change your life.

Starting something is risky. So is not starting something. What’s it gonna be?

Bill from Unleash your potential writes in his article Don’t let fear steal your dream: “Every successful person I know is a risk-taker. If you are honest with yourself, every successful person you know is a risk-taker as well.”

Planning is hard. You’re always torn between the dream and the reality of what you can achieve. Eventually you also have to decide that you have planned enough and it is officially time to do something.

Busy people have it easy in this respect. Busy people see the task at hand and mull over it while they’re in low brain-usage moments: in the shower, on a bus etc. Then they work out when the only feasible time to get this task done is. Then when that timeslot comes up they just plow on into the task. They figure it’s now or never so it just gets done. On that note, if you ever have something important you need to delegate give the job to a busy person. They’ll get it done.

A monster article, is procrastination a gift?, tries to see the positive side in procrastinating. For some, I guess, the stress of leaving things to the last minute can provide the adrenalin required to get it done. I mean, that’s how most people finish their thesis. But the adrenalin forced last-minuters are always jealous of the people who could make themselves prepare and do it earlier. Face it. Stress just isn’t that much fun.

“He who has begun the task has half done it” — Horace (Roman Poet)

Starting to do things is the hardest bit. Once you get going you can use the momentum of doing to keep doing. And you can watch the task head towards completion. It’s undeniable feedback of your good work.. and that’s hard to ignore. Positive feedback always makes you feel great about getting on with more of what got you the feedback.

Jessica Robinson has some great pros and cons here on whether to tackle a new task with “baby steps” or a “massive action”. She also notes that sometimes jut by making a baby step “you could flow gently along with the tide and not only use it to your advantage, but thoroughly enjoy it.”

So, the basic steps to overcoming procrastination are:

  • Get over your fear of starting by understanding that the consequences of not starting are risky too.
  • Calculate the risks involved.
  • Plan.. but then move on.
  • Understand that it’s not “work” you’re procrastinating about. It’s your study. It’s your business. It’s your promotion. It’s your life.
  • Get busy. Schedule a time to complete things.
  • Look forward to the momentum and positive feedback that doing it will bring.
  • Adjust and try to enjoy the idea of doing it.
  • Make a start, however small. That first step is the hard step.
  • Do it today. Tomorrow never comes.

Now, bugger off and get on with it!

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Get Happy!

March 9, 2008 Leave a Comment

What makes us happy? What makes us want to do things? To be inspired? To put it bluntly: What is the point?

Face it, we are only really satisfied with out lot in life on occasion. The rest of the time we are struggling with something or other and trying desperately to get back to that sense of peace. We feel we need to work hard at a job we hate so we can afford a holiday somewhere special.

But what makes the holiday so much better than normal, everyday life? I mean, really? Yes, new places are exciting and all. But it’s more than that. You’d probably be happy to just stay in the hotel room, right? Well, if it was a nice hotel. Conversely, a holiday with too much planned can begin to feel like a chore.

I believe a lot of the feeling of wellbeing is just to do with flexibility. Knowing you can stay in bed and do nothing is just so refreshing after months of 9-5 work. And you can plan day trips and touristy things. You are in charge of your own destiny. Every day. So, would it make you happy to have that freedom every day? Maybe not if that meant you had no money. But if you could have an entirely flexible schedule and still make ends meet that could very possibly make you one of the happiest people on earth.

So, relax a little. Live a little. Today, with the people you have and the things you have. Don’t think that happiness is something you have to wait or.. or pay for. Just do it. Be happy!

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